as you walk the streets of Stockholm, Sweden, im here sitting my sick butt in my living room’s apartment counting the days when i can wrap my arms around you again…
"I can do everything through him who gives me strength." Phil 4:13
Saturday, August 13, 2011
12 more days!
as you walk the streets of Stockholm, Sweden, im here sitting my sick butt in my living room’s apartment counting the days when i can wrap my arms around you again…
Thursday, August 11, 2011
things you can't ask
so i've been in a long distance relationship for 2 years now. i've known my boyf 2 years before we even got together and ever since we became a couple he visits every 3-6 months. he lives in Florida and I, here in the Philippines. you might know that by now if you've been reading my blog though.
anyway, he's in Russia now doing a cruise with his family and communication is scarce. we just email each other not knowing when the other one is gona be online. we can't set a time because well i have school and he doesn't know his schedule especially when the ship docks. besides the wifi is so expensive that we decided to just leave each other emails each day. if you ask how about giving each other a call? his roaming isn't working so there. nevertheless, with the emails we send each other, it makes us feel closer..
ok. now the whole point of this blog is to inform EVERYONE of things YOU CAN'T ASK to someone who is in a long distance relationship. im very open with what me and my boyfriend have. others call it a fairy tale. others would say the spark wouldn't last, others are inspired..
...and others just love throwing you questions that are sometimes totally insensitive already. couples who are in LDR is having a hard time already. everyday they wake, they try to motivate themselves to be happy and extend their patience in waiting for the day when they can hold their partners again. so if you want to ask them questions about their love life, please PLEASE be careful.
some questions were thrown to me by my friends lately. and most of them i chose not to answer. because i don't want to think about it. i know my friends were innocent in asking those questions and im glad that they understood when i told them that it's a lil rude and even said sorry..
so what are those questions?
1. what will you do if you guys would break up?
2. what will you do if something bad happens to him?
3. are you sure he's being faithful to you?
4. what if your just a chapter in his life?
5. are you sure he's not flirting with another girl on that cruise?
6. how would you feel if he decides to cancel his trip?
7. can you handle being away from him more than 6 months?
8. are you sure he's not dating someone else in his place?
9. he's surrounded with pretty, beach, (blonde) girls, how can he control himself? ---> this is far most the stupidest question i've heard!
10. what if you guys are just NOT meant to be?
there. i don't know if you feel me but im sure other girls who are in a LDR would be pissed off or would feel indifferent. so again, when you wana know things, refrain yourself from askin those questions. even people who are not in a LDR would find it rude if you ask them this, i think..
anyway, he's in Russia now doing a cruise with his family and communication is scarce. we just email each other not knowing when the other one is gona be online. we can't set a time because well i have school and he doesn't know his schedule especially when the ship docks. besides the wifi is so expensive that we decided to just leave each other emails each day. if you ask how about giving each other a call? his roaming isn't working so there. nevertheless, with the emails we send each other, it makes us feel closer..
ok. now the whole point of this blog is to inform EVERYONE of things YOU CAN'T ASK to someone who is in a long distance relationship. im very open with what me and my boyfriend have. others call it a fairy tale. others would say the spark wouldn't last, others are inspired..
...and others just love throwing you questions that are sometimes totally insensitive already. couples who are in LDR is having a hard time already. everyday they wake, they try to motivate themselves to be happy and extend their patience in waiting for the day when they can hold their partners again. so if you want to ask them questions about their love life, please PLEASE be careful.
some questions were thrown to me by my friends lately. and most of them i chose not to answer. because i don't want to think about it. i know my friends were innocent in asking those questions and im glad that they understood when i told them that it's a lil rude and even said sorry..
so what are those questions?
1. what will you do if you guys would break up?
2. what will you do if something bad happens to him?
3. are you sure he's being faithful to you?
4. what if your just a chapter in his life?
5. are you sure he's not flirting with another girl on that cruise?
6. how would you feel if he decides to cancel his trip?
7. can you handle being away from him more than 6 months?
8. are you sure he's not dating someone else in his place?
9. he's surrounded with pretty, beach, (blonde) girls, how can he control himself? ---> this is far most the stupidest question i've heard!
10. what if you guys are just NOT meant to be?
there. i don't know if you feel me but im sure other girls who are in a LDR would be pissed off or would feel indifferent. so again, when you wana know things, refrain yourself from askin those questions. even people who are not in a LDR would find it rude if you ask them this, i think..
Monday, August 1, 2011
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